The best picture books that delight and inspire kids to friendship, empathy, and creative problem-solving

Why am I passionate about this?

I’m a believer that kids can be creative, powerful problem-solvers–for themselves but also as mediators in their schools. I’ve been a school mediation trainer for over 30 years and know that learning someone else’s story brings empathy, understanding, and caring, and solutions can be found. I love delightful picture books that make this truth come alive for kids and adults alike, and I use them in trainings and just for my own inspiration and joy. I’ve also written YA (for all ages), including the novel Encounter: When Religions Become Classmates–From Oregon to India and Back. I want to make ripples for good in our world.


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Playing War: A Story About Changing the Game

By Kathy Beckwith, Lea Lyon (illustrator),

Book cover of Playing War: A Story About Changing the Game

What is my book about?

One hot summer day, Luke and his friends decide to play their favorite game of war, using sticks for guns and pine cones for grenades. When a new child in the neighborhood hesitates to join in and then tells them he was in a real war in the country where he used to live, the children see their game in a new light.

This is a story of what happens when friendship changes what we think we know and the difference it makes to do something about it. It gives children a gentle invitation to talk about caring, play, and the ways in which war affects real families like theirs. They see empathy unfold and how kids reach out to others in kindness.

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The books I picked & why

Book cover of Mr. Nogginbody Gets a Hammer

Kathy Beckwith Why did I love this book?

This is super funny, and I love laughing over Mr. Nogginbody’s discoveries. I also love a book that my grandkids will go get off the bookshelf and ask me to read to them–again.

David Shannon gives us a chance to ham it up with, “Fixed it!”  And I’m totally into a picture book that reminds us of life’s great truths–in this case, that not all problems are nails, so a hammer won’t be the best way to fix everything!

By David Shannon,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Mr. Nogginbody Gets a Hammer as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 4, 5, 6, and 7.

What is this book about?

If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail. After snagging his toe, Mr Nogginbody visits his local hardware shop in search of solutions. Armed with a shiny new hammer, he successfully fixes the nail protruding from his floor. But the satisfaction of his first repair carries him away and he figures that anything resembling a nail-from a lamp switch to a fire hydrant-can be fixed with a good whack. The results are predictably and theatrically disastrous until Mr Nogginbody arrives at a gentle awakening and recognises that not everything is a nail.


Book cover of Enemy Pie

Kathy Beckwith Why did I love this book?

The story is clever, engaging, and a whole lot of fun!

Who wouldn’t understand why this boy needs to get Jeremy Ross out of his life so he can have the perfect summer he was planning on? And who wouldn’t be curious about the idea that Dad’s enemy pie could do the trick?

I find it just as fun as the students I read it to when they are training to be mediators for their school! I love that this book invites us to learn more about someone before we put them on our enemy list. And the bold, wild illustrations make me giggle!

By Derek Munson, Tara Calahan King (illustrator),

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked Enemy Pie as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

It was the perfect summer. That is, until Jeremy Ross moved into the house down the street and became neighborhood enemy number one. Luckily Dad had a surefire way to get rid of enemies: Enemy Pie. But part of the secret recipe is spending an entire day playing with the enemy!

In this funny yet endearing story, one little boy learns an effective recipes for turning your best enemy into your best friend. Accompanied by charming illustrations, Enemy Pie serves up a sweet lesson in the difficulties and ultimate rewards of making new friends.


Book cover of The Lunch Thief: A Story of Hunger, Homelessness and Friendship

Kathy Beckwith Why did I love this book?

The kids in this story are so real.

The situation they find themselves in could happen at many schools, and they react like a lot of kids would–until they begin to wonder [wondering is a guide for my life (as is the other meaning of the word: to feel wonder/awe)]: What’s the deal? Why is this happening?

Curiosity leads to a burst of empathy. Empathy leads to kindness. Wow! Kids are changing their world by their own choices...that’s a story I love, find inspiring, and want to make real in my own life.

The illustrations let us come within inches of the feelings and the action. 

By Anne C. Bromley, Robert Casilla (illustrator),

Why should I read it?

1 author picked The Lunch Thief as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 8, 9, 10, and 11.

What is this book about?

His mom had packed his lunch bag with two burritos, a bag of corn chips, some carrots, and an apple. Once a week she tucks in a slice of her special lemon pound cake. Rafael saw Kevin, a new kid in his class, sneak his lunch bag from underneath his desk and tuck it in his backpack. But how can he do something about the theft without picking a fight? Inspired by his mother's advice to "Use your mouth before your fists," Rafael bides his time, but other kids' lunches are disappearing,too. On an errand with his mom, Rafael sees…


Book cover of Duck! Rabbit!

Kathy Beckwith Why did I love this book?

I discovered this book in a library in Kisumu, Kenya, while working there on a bio-sand water filter project. Oh my gosh! I wondered how I had missed it at home. It was almost as rewarding as a drink of fresh, pure water from a bio-sand filter!

I’ve used this book in most of the mediation trainings that I’ve led in the years since then. Who would think that one duck and one rabbit could–in very few words–show us an amazing truth about how viewpoints vary? That’s a truth that we have to grasp if we’re going to be mediators, or for that matter, parents, spouses, co-workers, friends, neighbors!

I love this book!

By Amy Krouse Rosenthal, Tom Lichtenheld,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Duck! Rabbit! as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

New York Times bestselling children's book!

Smart, simple story that will make readers of all ages eager to take a side: From the award-winning author of Little Pea, Little Hoot, and Little Oink comes a clever take on the age-old optical illusion: is it a duck or a rabbit? Depends on how you look at it! Readers will find more than just Amy Krouse Rosenthal's signature humor here; there's also a subtle lesson for kids who don't know when to let go of an argument.

* A fun story based on the classic duck/rabbit visual puzzle
* Book teaches a…


Book cover of Maggie and the Goodbye Gift

Kathy Beckwith Why did I love this book?

I love being “caught” by great truths in the shape of precious, funny picture books. And this is one that did just that!

We all get that strangers are scary and probably not friendly and probably not nice and probably.. and probably... Well, I didn’t know how Maggie could possibly change the situation for her family, but she sure did.

I laughed and was so glad that I had discovered this book! It was written in 1979 and is so worth the search to find! 

By Sue Milord, Jerry Milord,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Maggie and the Goodbye Gift as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

After moving, Maggie and her family are lonely until she discovers how to use the goodbye gift


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By Norrin M. Ripsman,

Book cover of The Oracle of Spring Garden Road

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Why am I passionate about this?

Too often, I find that novelists force the endings of their books in ways that aren’t true to their characters, the stories, or their settings. Often, they do so to provide the Hollywood ending that many readers crave. That always leaves me cold. I love novels whose characters are complex, human, and believable and interact with their setting and the story in ways that do not stretch credulity. This is how I try to approach my own writing and was foremost in my mind as I set out to write my own book.

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What is my book about?

The Oracle of Spring Garden Road explores the life and singular worldview of “Crazy Eddie,” a brilliant, highly-educated homeless man who panhandles in front of a downtown bank in a coastal town.

Eddie is a local enigma. Who is he? Where did he come from? What brought him to a life on the streets? A dizzying ride between past and present, the novel unravels these mysteries, just as Eddie has decided to return to society after two decades on the streets, with the help of Jane, a woman whose intelligence and integrity rival his own. Will he succeed, or is it too late?

In the tradition of Graham Greene, this is a book about love, betrayal, and life’s heavenly music

The Oracle of Spring Garden Road

By Norrin M. Ripsman,

What is this book about?

“Crazy Eddie” is a homeless man who inhabits two squares of pavement in front of a bank in downtown Halifax, Nova Scotia. In this makeshift office, he panhandles and dispenses his peerless wisdom. Well-educated, fiercely intelligent with a passionate interest in philosophy and a profound love of nature, Eddie is an enigma for the locals. Who is he? Where did he come from? What brought him to a life on the streets? Though rumors abound, none capture the unique worldview and singular character that led him to withdraw from the perfidy and corruption of human beings. Just as Eddie has…


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